Right or Wrong?

There is no perfect answer to this question. There are many times in my life that I have found myself at crossroads. I have faced the difficult question of making a hard choice. A hard choice is a scenario where none of the roads available are ‘better’ than the other. They both have their pros and cons. Basically “You don’t know” or “you are not sure”. None of the cons are the deal breakers. You can imagine your life reaching its destiny by either of the roads. This is when you need to realise that we all have priorities in life. To illustrate, ‘I would rather be at peace than have an expensive ride’. These are the priorities which define “my happiness”. While standing at crossroads, you need to take note as to what is your soul’s calling.

Most of the time, we are not aware of our own priorities. Like we have grown up to believe that money is extremely important when deciding on your job, so when the time comes we invariably give importance to money while making decisions about the job. Even though your happiness lies in working with the right set of people who share your value system, you end up making a comparatively more difficult choice to live with.

However, there are no rights or wrongs in life. Even by selecting a difficult choice, you might gain insight on your self  or your perspective. “Right decisions” are highly overrated. Its never a lost case! That is the beauty of life. There is never a ‘last chance’. There is always a ‘second last chance’.

But to avoid the detour, know yourself. Put yourself in the future to know which choice makes your soul twist. Spoiler Alert: Do not misunderstand your fear or anxiety to be a soul’s way of warning you about the choice. When it is just your fear, you feel your stomach churn at the thought of your future. While when a soul’s intuition throws an alert, it is more of a knowing feeling sans the panic.

Being aware of what you want shall go a longway in guiding you in making correct decisions. Trust yourself. Let your soul talk to you.

"You may not be where you intend to be

but you will always be where you need to be"