Why our relations falter..

We all are subject to changes

Whenever we enter into a formal contract with somebody, the most important thing at the back of our mind is that what exists today may not do so tomorrow. Hence all the drafting is done keeping in mind what all devils might raise their heads tomorrow. And the solution being to incorporate ways and means to mitigate such unpleasant contingencies.

However when entering into any human relationship, suddenly these logics falter. We enter into the relationship based on who we are and who they are at present. We fail to account for the fact that we are subject to changes. Our thoughts, our wishes, our dreams, our wants, our desires are all subject to changes. And probably that is the reason why relationships fail. Because we forget the obvious...