Monday, 11 January 2016

Choice

Its a choice after all... your choice :)

From the time you open your eyes in the morning till you doze off to sleep at night there is just one thing that you are doing constantly and that is making choices. All the while you are breathing and living you are making choices. You are defining your life by making choices. You are creating memories by making choices.

Everyday you choose to live the way you do.  You choose to cry fowl looking at the chaos in the morning or you choose to welcome the bliss of living in absolute doldrums.

To Love is a choice. Love is not eternal. But you make a choice everyday to make it eternal. The journey of love from now to forever is a series of choice made everyday to stand by your partner.

Wednesday, 6 January 2016

Decisions


Is decision making really a need or is it just an ego pleasing activity which we all undertake to appease our inner hungry devils?

Every decision we make is someway or the other based on what we know today. Even when you consider the options as to what might happen in future, in terms of timelines it is still based on present- be it in terms of emotions, gut instincts or logical analogy. 

The problem is not that you base your decisions on your present. Because there is no other way as of now..unless we learn to travel through time dimension. The problem is that you need to discount the facts and your feelings. All decisions we make are either based on facts or emotions or people. But how do you add the essence of validity to your decision making. Moreover because everything changes... be it emotions or facts or people. Even the facts change as time passes by. Time keeps on adding different hues to our memories. So as the clock is ticking away there is absolutely nothing which is remaining the same. 

Infact when you choose a life partner you make your decision based on who he is today, what he dreams of today, without considering the fact that everything is subject to change! Change is inevitable. Everything you know today is subject to change. So would you rethink your decision when your life partner some day chooses to change.. or are you liable to live the same way all your life just becoz that is how your partner knew you at the time of committing?

That would be an insane idea.

So how do you trust your decisions?